Why are guys so retarded? I went out last night to a dance bar with a few friends. A guy came up to one of my friends and asked her to dance. She politely told him no. He then had the nerve to ask her if she was a lesbian, which is not. God can't you take no from a girl without your super sized ego being hurt. If a girl says no to dancing with you there's probably a really good reason for it. It's not because she's a lesbian. So to those guys who can't take no for an answer I say pull up your super tight thong panties and get over it!!!!!!!